Clint,
"This thread is quite embarrassing for me as an male/human. Starting with a post from Debbie using words as first time and virgin as a lure for all you suckers (and then jumping on ArcticRider when he is only following the initiated path)... pffft, suckers. "
You should have put a "blushing" emoticon

after your "embarrassing" line; it would draw more attention to it. You see, Clint, that's how adverti
zing works: You add a
zing to an otherwise ordinary thing. Kind of like what I did with my original post.
I needed help with my computer, and with
9,000 nLite topics to choose from, I wanted to make sure that people saw mine.
I even apologized in my original post for using the provocative language, and explained that it was for the
zing factor.
And while it may embarrass you as a man/human that all these "suckers" fell for the topic, YOU took the time to read through it as well. See how well adverti
zing works?
As for ArcticRider, I think that his comments were funny and in the spirit of the game. I responded to them in that vain. Others thought he was out of line, but I was perfectly OK with it.
Clint,
"...not fun at all.
The talk about 'resale value' for a gift and choosing the diamonds really puts me off..."
Well, Clint, I got a huge pile of steaming cow pies for you. It's a
gift. You
must cherish it always, because it's a
gift. Hopefully this illustrates the valuable lesson: Not all things are worth the same to all people.
When I give a gift, it's to bestow upon someone something that they want, not something I want for them, because they may not value it as I do. If it's something they want, I know they'll value it.
In the Diamonds vs. Big Screen, choice, I don't really want either. I want a Monster Dark. If
stuck with either the diamonds or big screen, I suppose I'd take the TV: At least it has some utility value.
As for putting you off, I guess you'd better find a girl (or guy, depending on your preference) who has
exactly the same taste in things as you, lest you be disapointed with their disapointment.
"Stay on the bike girl, or do the 'girliething'...but act accordingly.
Thread initiated with words like 'virgin' 'first time'..coupled with 'biker chick aspirations' and 'resale value' for gifts....sign of the times I guess, but very embarrassing none the less."
Because I can't be feminine
and ride a motorcycle? Perhaps you should step into the modern era, Clint: These days, both women and men get to be what they want. You and I can both be feminine bikers, or macho construction workers, or manly accountants, or prissy chefs. Pretty much, the rules are ours to make up. Join me here: It's a good place to be.
And a heck of a lot better than "act accordingly".