Well, I use/like neither of the two here... so no vote!
Reget Deluxe Download manager, any day.

It has all the features found elsewhere, and more - in a light package that "just works" (no pun intended

).
As for the given options, DAP was a favourite at one time (years ago, in its v4 and v5 avatars). v7 is simply too "perceptible" - a download manager is supposed to function in an out-of-the-way manner (atleast according to me). FlashGet never really offered anything more than reget (all that was special, was referrer cookie ability for those who do warez downloads, and reget is not deficient on that count), so never needed it.
BTW, astalavista, no need to make us "see red", lol. Please put that first-post back to normal colour.