hi m8E, I was going to send a PM til I read some new posts in here

You have antivirus, firewall and antispyware installed, thats good but do not forget to update them (norton does that auto, spybot doesnt). About your ports that are opened... your firewall, Norton Internet Security if im not mistaken, is configured so these ports that your are talking about answers on request from an outside source. This can be re-configured (ofcourse) in the preferences for Norton Internet Security. But since you dont even need these ports you can disable the services which uses these ports. Port 23 is, like I said in an earlier PM the standardport for telnet. To close this port you have to disable the Telnet Service, and port 80 is the standardport for webservers... and the only OS from windows that I know of, that have this service running from start is Windows 2000

Look for "Internet Information Service" and disable that one too. Port 1025 belongs to RPC, do not disable the RPC service tho, just make sure the rules in your firewall is configured to block incoming requests on this port. ICMP is blocked by softwarefirewalls by default I guess, but since it answered on symantecs echo-request, take a closer look in your firewalls preferences.
About that list of applications that startup when you logon... none of them will harm your computer

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Do not configure your firewall so it blocks everything, there should be a "learning"-mode, try that.
//phiber0ptik